Life word itself describes its complexity. Life is not so very easy. A child takes birth in any family. The best part of life is the period until and unless the child is not aware of the world around him/her. Once the child becomes conscious of the world around him/ her. The child is admitted to the school. The daily routine starts.
Guidance Given To The Child
The child is told about the importance of this time. it’s said that this is a crucial part of life. this is the time to make your base, so work hard and make your base strong. When the child reaches in 5th standard he/she is again given a lecture on the importance of that time. The child is again told to work hard for two-three years so that the child can consolidate the base. OK, this time passes also.
When A Child Reaches 8th Standard
When a child reaches in 8th standard he/she is again counseled to work hard for another two-three years so that he/she may be able to choose the right stream. The child again works hard and reaches 11th class. He/she is again grilled and said to work hard for another two-three years so that he/she may be able to compete in any competitive course.
Again The Same Root Is Followed By The Child
The child again works hard and clears the exams of the 12th standard. He/ she is then sent for any particular training course and is again told to work hard for another four-five years and is guided that this is a very crucial time. Work hard during this time and your life will become comfortable in the future. / she again works hard and completes the training and is appointed for a job.
There Is No Rest Or Break
The child again is guided to work hard for two-three years and is again told it’s a very crucial phase of his life. Work hard for two-three years and then life will be comfortable. The child again works hard and attains a respectable position in his/her life.
Beginning Of Married Life
Then the child is married and all the responsibilities come on his shoulders. he/she again doesn’t get comfort zone. Then it’s time to become parents, which means the responsibilities are doubled or tripled. He/she becomes very busy coping with all those responsibilities.
Stage Of Maturity
The child becomes a mature man/woman and then it’s time to get his/her children married. When the child becomes old he/she even is not aware of it. Then there starts the struggle for existence, the fight with several types of diseases. Finally, a day comes when the child leaves the world. I want to know, where is that comfort zone?
No Comfort Zone
Friends, actually there is no comfort zone in life. I have heard that a person becomes comfortable when he/she is on the pyre. I don’t know about it. Nobody knows what happens after that. The theme is, that life is a struggle and we have to fight with it throughout our life. The things which we can do to make it easier are in our hands.
I am going to tell some of them before you.
- Learn from the past. Past experiences will teach you a lesson and help you cope with the same situation in the future.
2. Age is no criterion for describing one’s life. Dealing sensibly and wholeheartedly in worse conditions is a way to remain happy.
3. Effective time management is the key to a happy and comfortable life. You might have come across several people in your life, who always say that they have no time.
4. You might not live to see tomorrow. So, each day of life is precious. Live it happily and to its fullest extent.
5. If something or someone is important to you, you will spare time for that. So, one should stop crying when he/she has no time.
6. Failure is a key to success so, don’t get disheartened after a failure. Try to learn from it. you will be a winner in the future.
7. Always pay gratitude to God for what you have got. Believe me, it can do wonders for your life’s happiness.
8. Do things, you love. It will make you happy.
9. Remember, nobody on this earth has a perfect life, so be contented. Don’t compare yourself with others. Don’t be bothered, by what they have got. Be satisfied with what you have got.
10. Always keep yourself motivated to face the harsh realities of life. Life will throw various challenges at you. A good motivational power will help you to cope with all those challenges
11. Be meditative in life because meditation is the strongest weapon that helps in keeping your mind calm. The calmer you are, the more your ability to cope with difficult situations.
12. Be miracle-minded and keep confidence in yourself and keep on believing that you can face any situation and can defeat it. Such a feeling is going to make you happier.
13. Always take the blessings of elders, as these blessings are going to play a major role in one’s life. These blessings will help you a lot if kept in mind, these will pay you on one or another day.
14. Always do the right and help needy people. It will also generate a sense of satisfaction in yourself. Satisfaction is another key to success. Follow these guidelines and see the difference.
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