Some parents think something special about their children i.e. about their bright future. Every parent wants their children to excel in their lives. Every parent, according to their capabilities try to do their best, as far as their children are concerned. If any child/adult is asked, What do you want to do in your life, whether want to become rich, live a normal life, or want to live like a poor man? Everybody will give the same answer that he/she wants to be rich.
Everyone Wants To Be Rich
If you ask them, do you want to buy a car, a house, or items of luxury in your life? Probably, you are going to get the same answer which is ‘ yes.’ Every person, irrespective of caste, color, creed, etc. wants to live a luxurious life. Then what happens to them in the future? 99% of the population in the world remains poor and only 1% of them fulfill their dreams. Nobody wants to be poor. Everybody loves being rich and hates being poor. Think about it, why 99% of people aren’t able to taste the fruit of being rich?
Poor Thinking Will Never Allow You To Become Rich
Remember one thing, poor thinking never allows you to become rich. If this article is read by students, teachers or parents, or housewives, please read it carefully and completely. A wholehearted effort may change the thinking of any one of you.
Education Doesn’t mean Scoring Good Marks
The biggest thing in today’s world is being a good human being, first of all. Every parent wants their children to be good human beings and attain good qualifications. Every one of us wants our children to be well educated. We also want our children to get selected for Government jobs. That is why we always say them to work hard and attain good marks. Dear friends, education doesn’t mean attaining good marks. Scoring good marks is not the criterion of being intelligent. A child scoring average marks can be intelligent also. Getting a Government job is another criterion for most of us to achieve success in life. A Government Job Doesn’t Mean Success
A Government Job Doesn’t Mean Success In Life
If selected for a Government job doesn’t mean success in life. No doubt you will be able to spend an average life, but where is the success? Getting a Government job doesn’t fulfill the goals of anybody’s life. Every parent because of wants their children to score good marks and get selected for a Government job so that he/she can earn a name and fame, in turn, the parents will get the same indirectly. I am in fact against Government jobs, but you have given only one thing to your children throughout their lives, that is to study and study, nothing more than that. Some of the parents, by hook or crook, are also able to do so and get their children selected for Government jobs. Does it mean that scoring good marks or getting a Government job is successful?
Mindset Of People
In some countries, parents even prefer to get their daughters married to boys, who are doing Government jobs. Such is the mindset of some people. They stay away from getting their daughters married to boys who are in private jobs. The first question which is asked by the mother or the father of the girl is whether your son is employed in the Government or a private job.
Child Adapts Itself According To The Surroundings
When a child takes birth, his/her memory is totally like a blank sheet. Whatsoever you teach the child, the child will accept it. If you send the child to Nepal, he/she will learn Nepali. If you send the child to America, he/she will learn English. My point is that the child adopts according to the happenings around him/her. Just like a blank memory card, every child behaves in the same way. When you put a blank memory card in your mobile phone, slowly and steadily, it starts filling up with the information given by us. We work on the phone and it stores the information. In the same way, a child learns, whatsoever you teach him/her. The grasps the knowledge from the family, surroundings, or life experiences.
Encourage Your Children To Start Their Work
I want to say that if your child is unsuccessful in his/her life. You are the biggest reason behind his/her being unsuccessful in his/her life. Your teachings also play an important role in his/her failure. yes, I don’t even hesitate in blaming you. I am blaming you for a proven fact and the research performed by various scholars. The biggest fact remains that everybody can’t Government job. These are limited in number. Why don’t encourage your children to start their work? After completing their education why do you allow them to sit at home and wait for being selected for a Government job? Why don’t you encourage your child at that particular time to go and start a business?
Why To Wait For Government Jobs
Children keep waiting for the job. Some of the lucky ones can get it and many of them are left without it. They start feeling dejected. Waiting for a Government job means that you are wasting your precious time. Waiting for a Government job for 5, 10, or 15 years is not a wise thing. This is only because the child has been fed from his/her childhood that his/she aims to get a Government job. Why don’t you teach your child to be their boss and start their work? Why not guide your children that education is for gaining knowledge, distinguishing between right or wrong, good and bad, and so on? Education should have been given in a way that you could be your boss. Why depend on others when you even can generate employment for others too?
Be An Employer Not An Employee
By generating your own business and employment, you can rule over hundreds and thousands of people. Getting educated means that you can do anything. I will also like to request the teaching fraternity to guide the students that if you don’t get an ant Government job, doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the world. There should be such type of motivational classes in schools where there they can be taught about these things. Job doesn’t let a person die because of hunger and also doesn’t allow each and everyone to achieve success. I will like to request parents that don’t teach their children to be an employee but teach them to be an employer. As said earlier, children are blank sheets. Whatsoever is written on them is marked permanently. So please motivate your children in this direction also.
Example
It’s big misery that everybody wants to be rich but ends up with poor life. Make your thoughts big and attain success. I would like to say, humans are like ice cream sticks in the refrigerator. Until and unless they are in the refrigerator, they are in frozen form but once they are out they start melting. Once a child takes birth, the struggle for existence begins.
How Long We Can Work
The average age of humans is 75-80 years. Out of this span, 30 years are lost in getting educated, 15 years pass in old age and we are left with 75-30-15=30 years. These 30 years as stated earlier are like ice cream stick which is now out of the refrigerator. It will start melting. We are left with only two options that are either eat it or allow it to melt and get it destroyed. In the same way, if we utilize those remaining 30 years intelligently, we can reap the results and if not utilized properly, we can meet with the fate of melted ice cream which is the state in which we are poor. So, please don’t waste time cursing yourself or your luck
MAIN POINTS TO REMEMBER
- Negative thoughts are never going to help you to achieve success in life.
- The teaching fraternity should guide the students properly. They should present every facet of the coin, in front of the students.
- Parents too should not force their children to for getting them selected the Government jobs only. They should also encourage their children to open up their ventures. Rest depends upon the choice of their children.
- Don’t let your children feel dejected when not able to get selected for any Government Job.
- Getting an education doesn’t mean that you are intelligent. Even children scoring average marks can be intelligent.
- Don’t run only for scoring good marks and get selected for a Government job. Try to search for other options also.
- Try to be your boss. Instead of being an employee try to be an employer.
- Hope you will enjoy reading this article. Stay connected to read my next articles. Till then Bye! God bless you all.
