( Making Friends ),There are so many situations in life where we feel demoralized and full of negativity. Scores of reasons might be behind such a negative frame of mind. We try our level best to come out of such situations. Sometimes we are successful and sometimes we fail. When despite our repeated attempts we are not able to come out of the situation we need a guide or we can say a motivator who can guide us out of that situation.
Other Way Of Coming Out Of Such Situation
One other thing we can do to come out of such a situation is by building bridges and making good friends. In fact, by doing so we can get our attention diverted toward another side. God knows which friend of ours will help us in coming out of that situation. True friends always play an important role in changing our frame of mind. They can drag our minds from negativity towards positivity. It seems to be very easy it isn’t. Making friends is not very easy. I am going to share some tips for making friends.
Types Of People
We can see a variety of people around us in our lives. Generally, we divide them into two main categories.
1. Less talkative.
2. More talkative.
Less Talkative
Such people are not very expressive by nature so they prefer to remain calm. They speak very less and listen more. This doesn’t mean that they are not attentive. Less speaking means that they are listening to what others are saying therefore such types of people gain a lot and extract even the minutest of knowledge about what others are saying. That type of person has another habit of writing more than other people. They tend to note down what they have learned. They don’t allow any type of knowledgeable event to go in vain. That is why they pen it down.
More Talkative
Such people speak a lot and they even don’t bother about what others are saying or what they want to say. They don’t allow others to speak and express their views. Because of this habit, they aren’t able to listen to what others want to say as a result they aren’t able to gain anything. As such people are busy talking all the time as a result they have no time to pen the events down. This means such people have no or very less desire to write.
How To Start A Conversation With A New Person Whom You Want To Make A Friend
* Start your conversation by giving a pleasant smile, greeting the person, and then shaking hands with him/her. Remember a pleasant smile should still be existing on your face. Shaking hands will help both of you in gaining confidence.
* Read the body language of the other person and judge whether he/she is interested in starting a conversation with you. If signs are positive then go ahead and If you find that the other person is not in a mood to talk with you, just leave the site with a smiling face.
Tips For Making Friends
1. Always try to read the body language of the other person and try to judge a topic of that person’s interest and start conversating on that topic.
2. If the other person is interested to start a conversation, make an eye-contact and give a pleasant smile before starting a conversation.
3. Create a positive atmosphere that will help in creating positive vibes and will help both of you to go on smoothly with your conversation.
4. Don’t use negative words during your conversation and try to compliment the other person using positive words.
5. Try to make the other people feel that you are interested in the conversation as a result the other person will also get engaged in the conversation.
6. Don’t ask personal questions during the conversation such as marital status, salary, etc.
7. Discuss general topics. Don’t ask too many questions having one-word answers.
Critical Tips For Making Friends
8. Create an atmosphere so that the other person starts feeling comfortable and encourage the other person to speak freely.
9. Don’t start giving your advice, especially during the first meeting.
10. Always start a discussion on neutral topics irrespective of any religion, color, caste, creed, or status.
11. Avoid controversies and try to leave with a positive note if any controversy arises.
12. If you are capable of creating humor and can make other people laugh then go ahead so that the atmosphere becomes light and positive.
13. Try to create an unforgettable impression on the other person which can be remembered by the other person always. The quality of words used during the conversation is more important than the topic of the conversation.
Conclusion
Any conversation will always lead to adding value to your life because whenever you conversate you always gain something. You share your thoughts, experiences, and expertise among yourselves as It has been wisely said by Henry Words Worth, that a single conversation across the table with a wise man is better than ten years of mere study of books.
So, always try to make good friends by building bridges so that you can come out of the worse situations that too with flying colors. Hope you will enjoy this article. Stay connected to read my next articles. Till then Bye!